To me, on the occasion that the baby has been teething for days, deadlines loom, and you are overwhelmed. Or, maybe to you, friend, if you are similarly whelmed.

Turn off the computer.

Take a bucket bath.

Stare into your child’s face and remember all those years ago (yesterday?) when he was a baby.

Cook them a good meal.


Brush your daughter’s hair.

Make coconut ice cream with your boys and let them surprise Papa with it.

Walk to the garden, put your hands in the dirt.

Laugh with your husband and listen closely to his.


Snuggle the baby.

Watch your children run barefoot on the dirt road. Soak in their laughter.

Go to bed early.

Catch up on those deadlines tomorrow.

Have a beautiful day, friends.

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One thing we have done a lot of in the garden is test patches. We’ve committed ourselves to large plantings of foods that we know work well here – cow peas, sweet potatoes, greens, etc. But we’re always hesitant to take up a lot of space with something we’ve never tried before.

Instead, we’ve thrown out seeds for different things to see how they handle the heat, drought, and clay soil. Some things fall flat on their face and others have surprised us.

Seed Grains

This year we planted three different types of grain, well some call them seed grains as they are not of the grass family. The first, millet, was intentional. Stewart threw some out into the pallet garden and we had a couple of heads come up. It was everyday millet that we’d purchased for food and I’m guessing that’s why we had a low germination rate.

The other two grains were buckwheat and amaranth. These were actually a part of a larger perennial insectary mix. They sure have helped with attracting beneficial insects and both the buckwheat and amaranth grew really well. I’m told you can eat the grains and the green from both the buckwheat and the amaranth. Has anyone else heard this?

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Easy Threshing

The millet was of particular interest to us because it has a short growing season, likes the heat, and the grain itself comes out of the rest of the plant fairly easily. The buckwheat I have cracked between my teeth to remove the hull, but I’m thinking our Country Living Grain Mill might be able to crack it. I haven’t attempted to harvest the amaranth yet, but from what I can tell the seeds come out of the head fairly easily.

A grain that threshes easily is one of our interests as we’d like to use grain for both human and animal consumption where needed. I’ve worked with all of these grains in the kitchen previously, so any of them would be a welcome addition to our harvest basket.

We’ll see how things go next year. Perhaps buckwheat in the spring or fall and millet or amaranth through the summer? In the meantime, I think I need to get my hands on one of these books:


 Have you grown grain on any scale on your homestead? Please share in the comments!